Drama junkie

There's a train crash of a rfc going on at Commons at the moment, at http://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/Commons:Requests_for_comment/offsite_discussions , and its bringing the worst of the drama junkie in me, really I should stay away, for my own sanity I should ignore it  and catalog some unidentified files. The thing it makes me feel guilty for letting thing get as bad as they have, while I've been in my own corner enjoying myself these two mutually antagonistic cliques have really gotten out of hand. Okay so there is not much one admin can do, I really want pour a bucket of water over the two personalities on both sides who seemed to be fanning the flames, but they all seem to be enjoying themselves.